[The Ruling on celebrating Non-Muslim Holidays in the Hanbali Madhab]
Question:
What is the ruling on celebrating holidays such as Mother's Day, wedding anniversaries, and others that have their origins among non-Muslims?
Answer:
All praise be to Allah, who honored us with Islam and favored us with His worship over all creation. Blessings and peace be upon our Prophet Muhammad, his family, and companions.
Allah, the Almighty, has commanded us to distance ourselves from non-Muslims, both the People of the Book and others, and has distinguished us from them in many matters. He has prohibited us from resembling them. The Prophet (صل الله عليه وسلم) said: "Whoever imitates a people is one of them." (Reported by Imam Ahmad and Abu Dawood with an authentic chain of narration).
Among the things He has prohibited for us are their holidays; attending them, participating in them, and congratulating them on these occasions.
An 'eid is defined by Shaykh al-Islam in Al-Iqtidaa as: "A day of public gathering that occurs regularly, whether annually, weekly, or monthly."
In another place, he said: "The term 'eid' is a generic term encompassing any day or place where they gather, and any practice they initiate during these times or places. The prohibition is not limited to their specific holidays, but extends to all times and places they hold in reverence, and the practices they initiate during those times.
This ruling also applies to Hareem Al-Eid, which includes practices done before and after the celebration solely because of the occasion."
This means that it is forbidden for a Muslim to participate in or witness any of their holidays. Our Hanbali scholars also stated that it is disliked to fast on a day that non-Muslims observe as a day of significance, even if it is not an 'eid'.
Shaykh al-Islam also said: "An 'eid' refers to acts of worship and customs."
The Eid (Al-Fitr and Al-Adha) is a distinct and apparent feature of the Muslims. Shaykh Al-Islam further stated: "The Eid (Al-Fitr and Al-Adha) are part of the religious rites and practices established by Allah, as Allah says, 'We have appointed acts of devotion for every community to observe." Surah al-Haj [22:67]
The official position of the madhab is that attending non-Muslim holidays is forbidden. In Al-Iqna' it is stated: "It is forbidden to attend the holiday of the Jews and Christians, or any other non-Muslims, or to sell to them on their holiday or exchange gifts with them for their holiday, because participating in such actions would elevate their holiday, which is similar to initiating greetings with them."
In Al-Muntaha it is explicitly stated -reiterating what was stated previously by Shaykh Al-Islam Ibn Taymiyya- : "It is forbidden to congratulate them, offer condolences, visit them when they are ill, or attend their holidays." The author of Al-Ghayah also makes mention of the same view.
If only attending their holidays is forbidden, then participating in them is even more forbidden. This is the view of the madhhab, and Shaykh al-Islam's statements support this as shown below.
The origin of this prohibition stems from the statement of Imam Ahmad, as will be explained.
Ibn al-Qayyim said in Ahkam Ahl adh-Dhimah: "As for congratulating them on their specific religious symbols, this is agreed upon as being forbidden."
Ibn al-Najjar also supported the prohibition of congratulating, offering condolences, visiting, or attending the holidays of non-Muslims, citing the hadith of the Prophet (صلى الله عليه وسلم) : "Do not initiate greetings with the Jews and Christians." (Reported by Tirmidhi). Ibn al-Najjar stated in his explanation of Al-Muntahaa : "Congratulating, offering condolences, visiting, and attending their holidays is similar to greeting them."
Therefore participating in the practices of non-Muslim religious festivals, such as giving gifts or showing reverence for the day, is prohibited.
The prohibition on attending and performing the holidays of non-Muslims is further supported by the following: