If you have read and studied the quran, you know that Allah speaks about different types of people in the Quran.
I love the quran because it gives you the reality of certain people and their nature which you can observe for yourself.
One type of people are those that have eyes but they cannot see. Their hearts are blind. No matter how much logic or reasoning or convincing you do, they won't ever be able to see the truth.
Such people should be avoided because they will just waste your time. Instead just pray for them and encourage them to goodness. A reminder that you can't help someone who doesn't want to be helped.
Everyone has problems. Some problems are better than others. Some problems are our own fault and others aren't. Some problems are desires and others needs.
For some, the problem is finding someone to love. For some, the problem is finding food and water.
Whatever your problem, remain grateful and become a better problem solver. The only way to become a better problem solver is through wisdom.
Women are attracted to sweet words, words of encouragement, words of truth, words of kindness, words of respect.
Men are attracted to beautiful appearances, beauty of elegance, beauty of modesty, beauty of haya, beauty of faces, beauty of visuals, beauty of actions.
Both are delusional. This is why men lie and women wear makeup.
most parents set expectations on their children not because they want them to grow up to be wonderful and successful people. or because they love them.
But quite often i find they just want status, they just want to benefit from their children and they think that all the things they did for their children has a price. Some consider their children as property. How backwards.
Where as islam teaches us that children have rights, they have their own destiny, their own desires and dreams and it's our job as parents to propel them to greatness, not force anything but encourage them and be their best friend.
A true man is he who finds himself alone with sins, & has the power to commit them & his lusts urges him to quench its thirst, but he thinks about Allah looking at him, so he feels embarrassed from angering Him and thus his desire goes away.