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↲(⑬) - علِّم ولدك الأخلاق الفاضلة

اغرس في أولادك مكارم الأخلاق، علمهم الصدق، علمهم الشجاعة، علمهم الكرم، علمهم السخاء، علمهم الحشمة، علمهم الحياء، علمهم الغيرة.

وحذرهم من رذائل الأخلاق، حذرهم من الأخلاق الهابطة، حذرهم من الكذب، حذرهم من قلة الحياء، من قلة الحشمة، من قلة الغيرة، حذرهم من الجبن، والبخل، حذرهم من الأخلاق الهابطة والرذيلة .
(يا بني أقم الصلاة وأمر بالمعروف وانه عن المنكر واصبر على ما أصابك) .

علمه الحكمة علمه الفطنة، علمه الانتباه، علمه الحرص؛ لأن الأمر بالمعروف والنهي عن المنكر يحتاج إلى شجاعة، يحتاج إلى حكمة، ويحتاج إلى فطنة، ويحتاج إلى انتباه، ويحتاج إلى صبر وتحمل وتجلد.

(يا بني أقم الصلاة وأمر بالمعروف وانه عن المنكر واصبر على ما أصابك إن ذلك من عزم الأمور * ولا تصعر خدك للناس ولا تمش في الأرض مرحًا إن الله لا يحب كل مختال فخور).
حذره من العجب والكبر والرياء والغرور، علمه التواضع، ولين الجانب، وخفض الجناح للمسلمين.
(واقصد في مشيك واغضض من صوتك إن أنكر الأصوات لصوت الحمير) هذه التغذية المعنوية تعليم الدين ومكارم الأخلاق هي خير من التغذية الحسية.

نقول: جزا الله خيرا الآباء على الإنفاق على أولادهم في إطعامهم وشرابهم، لكن اعلموا أن التغذية المعنوية بتعليم الدين ومكارم الأخلاق هي خير من التغذية الحسية بالطعام والشراب، وأهم منها
التغذية المعنوية، خير من إعطائهم الذهب والفضة، التغذية بتعليم الدين ومكارم الأخلاق خير من إعطائهم الأموال من الريالات أو الدولارات، التغذية المعنوية بالدين والأخلاق هي التي سيسعدون بها في الدنيا والآخرة، وهي التي سينتفعون بها في الدنيا والآخرة، وسينفعونك أيها الأب وأيتها الأم في حياتكما وبعد مماتكما.
فاحرصوا غاية الحرص على هذه التغذية المعنوية.


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📢Advice for Fathers with their Children

🖊️By Shaykhul –Islaam
Ibn Qayyim al-Jawziyyah as-Salafi -Rahimullaah-

📝Translated by Abbas Abu Yahya

👤Shamsuddeen Muhammad bin Abee Bakr Ibn Qayyim aj-Jawzeeyah (d.751 A.H.) -Rahimullaah- said:
 
‘Allaah’s advice for fathers with their children precedes advice for children with their fathers.
So whoever was careless and negligent of educating his son, and leaves off benefiting him and leaving him useless, then he has been evil to him, extremely evil.

Indeed most children being corrupt is due to their fathers, and then being neglectful of them.

Them leaving their education of the Faraid (obligations) and the Sunnan (practices of the Sunnah) of the religion, so they caused them to be lost when they were young. Then the fathers did not benefit from them when they were older.

Just like some fathers held it to be shameful that their children were disobedient, so the child says, O my father you showed disobedience to me when I was young, so now I’m being disobedient to you now that I am older. You caused me to be lost when I was a boy,  so I caused you to be lost in your old age.’

📚[From ‘Tuhfat al-Mowdood bi Ahkaam al-Mowlood’ p.387]
 

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🎁The Give and Take of a Good Relationship

📜✍🏼An explanation of the famous ḥadīth of the Prophet (ﷺ) regarding living with one’s spouse in harmony. A call to overlook faults and to abandon nitpicking.

👤Imām ʾAbd al-Raḥmān ibn Nāṣir al-Saʿdī (1376 AH) said:

“The saying of the Prophet [ﷺ] ‘Let no believing man revile his wife [a believing woman]. If he finds himself hating one of her qualities, he will indeed find himself loving another one [of her attributes]’, offers two major benefits:

1 - The first is that it guides to the righteous way of dealing with one’s wife, close family, friends, workers, and whomsoever there exists any type of relationship or communication. It highlights that every person should fully and wholly prepare themselves for the fact that there must exist some type of flaw, deficiency, or hated thing [in that acquaintance]. So if you find that [flaw], compare it to your responsibility [concerning that acquaintance] and your duty of consistent communication [with that person] in order to cultivate consistent feelings of affection [between yourselves]. This is accomplished through reminding oneself constantly of this person’s good attributes and habits and the praiseworthy purposes of the relationship for yourselves and how it could affect others. It is by not distracting ourselves with those deficiencies, instead concentrating on the good of persistent  companionship and communication, that feelings of comfort can blossom.

2 - By this, the second benefit of this ḥadīth can occur which is the removal of all forms of worry and stress. This ensures the relationship is kept completely pure with both parties consistently carrying out their responsibilities towards one another regardless of whether those responsibilities are wājib (obligatory) [in the sight of Allāh] or mustaḥabb (recommended). Thus, do both parties derive true comfort and ease from one other. Whomsoever is not guided to this advice of the Prophet [ﷺ] and chooses to invert the matter will notice every single tiny flaw and completely ignore any good that is present. There is no doubt this person must be plagued by the sickness of stress. He has chosen to contaminate the affection that could have existed between him and his acquaintance. This will inevitably lead to both parties shirking their duties towards one another; duties which [Allāh has ordered] them to fulfil.”

📖Al-Wasāʾil al-Mufīdah li-al-Ḥayāt al-Saʿīdah: 44-45
🖊️Translated by: Riyāḍ al-Kanadī

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📜🕯️The Prophet (salallāhu ‘alaihi wasallam) said:

“Hide your ‘awrah (private parts) except from your wives and what your right hands possess.” (Ahmad 5/3)

And the mother of the believers, Ā’ishah (radiyallāhu ‘anhu) said:

“I and the Prophet (salallāhu ‘alaihi wasallam) would take a bath together from the same vessel of water after having sexual relations.” (Al-Bukhāri 1/64, Muslim 1/256)

So this is proof that the Prophet (salallāhu ‘alaihi wasallam) would look at his wife, and that she would look at him. And complete pleasure and enjoyment are achieved by gazing along with caressing, touching, whispering intimate speech, foreplay and sexual intercourse.

Ibn Al-Qayyim (d. 752H) stated:

“It is from the necessary affairs that a man precedes sexual intercourse with his wife with foreplay, kissing and sucking her tongue. Allah’s Messenger (salallāhu ‘alaihi wasallam) would participate in foreplay with his wives and kiss them.” (Zād al-Ma’ād, 4/253)

All of this is allowed and legislated―and it brings about love, intimacy, compassion and the utmost nearness between their hearts and bodies.

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⛈️What Harms Marriages?

👤Sh. Muhammad Ghalib said:

Marriage is love, mercy, ease, and contentment. Hence, it is obligatory upon the spouses to increase these affairs and distance themselves from all that nullifies and decreases them. And from the greatest of that which corrupts it is Harām relationships and evil connections.

Let the spouses know that blessings are removed and weakened due to the presence of sins and they are perpetuated and increased due to obedience.

🔗Taken from the Shaykh's Twitter

📝Translated by Raha Batts

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💉[How can he feel safe?]

👤Imam Ibn al-Qayyim (d. 751 AH رحمه الله) said:

“How can one be safe who has a wife that shows him no mercy, a child who makes no excuse for him, a neighbor he cannot trust, a friend who does not advise him sincerely, a partner who is unjust to him, an enemy who does not relent in his enmity, a soul that constantly inclines toward evil, and a world adorned in allure? — One who has destructive desire, overwhelming lust, overpowering anger, a devil who adorns evil, and a weakness that overtakes him?

If Allah takes him under His care and draws him near, then all of these are subdued for him. But if Allah forsakes him and leaves him to his own self, they all gather against him, leading to his ruin.”

📖 (al-Fawā’id, p. 64)

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-قال الإمامُ ابنُ القيّم:


"كيفَ يَسْلَمُ مَنْ له زوجةٌ لا تَرحمُهُ، وولدٌ لا يَعذرُه، وجارٌ لا يَأمَنُه، وصاحبٌ لا يَنْصحُه، وشريكٌ لا يُنصِفُه، وعَدوٌّ لا يَنامُ عَن مُعاداتِه، ونَفْسٌ أمّارةٌ بالسُّوءِ، ودُنيا مُتَزيّنةٌ، وهَوىً مُرْدٍ، وشَهوةٌ غالبةٌ له، وغَضبٌ قاهِرٌ، وشيطانٌ مُزَيِّنٌ، وضَعفٌ مُسْتَولٍ عليه؟!
فإنْ تَولّاهُ اللهُ وجَذَبَهُ إليه؛ انْقَهرتْ له هذه كلُّها، وإنْ تَخلَّى عنه ووكلَهُ إلى نفسِه اجتَمعتْ عليه، فكانَتِ الهَلَكةُ"


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The Prophet ﷺ said, “A woman should not fast (optional fasts) except with her husband’s permission if he is at home (staying with her).
📚Bukhārī

10. Does not leave her husband’s house to live elsewhere, including her own parents’ house.

Evidence:
Report narrated in al-Ṣahīhayn about the story of the slander (al-Ifk), in which ʿĀʾishah (may Allāh be pleased with her) said to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him): Will you give me permission to go to my parents?
📚Al-Bukhārī (4141) and Muslim (2770).

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Messenger of Allāh ﷺ said, ‘The person who (lies) in order to conciliate between people is not a liar, when he conveys good or says (something) good”.The narration in Muslim added: She said, “I never heard him (she meant the Prophet ﷺ) giving permission of lying in anything except in three (things): war, conciliating between people and the conversation of man with his wife and the conversation of a woman with her husband”.
📚Bukhārī and Muslim

Mu’adh ibn Jabal (raḍī Allāhuʿanhu) reported that the Prophet said, “When a wife hurts her husband in this world, his wife in Paradise, from among the hural-ayn says “Do not hurt him. May Allāh destroy you! He is only an alien with you and will soon separate from you to come to us”.
📚Tirmidhī, Ibn Majah, Aḥmad, Ṣaḥīḥ

Narrated Abū Hurayrah:
It was narrated that Abū Hurayrah said: “It was said to the Messenger of Allāh ﷺ: ‘Which woman is best?’ He said: ‘The one who makes him happy when he looks at her, obeys him when he commands her, and she does not go against his wishes with regard to herself nor her wealth.'”
📚An-Nasaa’ee, Ḥasan

5. She preserves his honour and herself

Fadala ibn ʿUbayd reported that the Prophet, may Allāh bless him and grant him peace, said, “Do not ask about three: a man who parts company with the community, rebels the ruler and dies while he is a still a rebel. Do not ask about him. Or a slave or slave girl who runs away from his master. Or a woman whose husband is absent and who has sufficient provision and then displays her adornments to strangers and mixes freely. Do not ask about three: a man who contends with Allāh regarding His cloak. His cloak is pride and His wrapper is His might. Also, a man who doubts the command of Allāh and someone who despairs of Allāh’s mercy.”
📚Al-Adabul-Mufrad, Ṣaḥīḥ

Abū Malih Huzali reported that some women of Hims or of Syria visited Āʿishah (raḍīyallahu ʿanhu). She said, “You are the women who go to the public baths. I have heard Allāh’s Messenger ﷺ say that there is no woman who removes her garments in a house other than her husband’s but she tears the curtain between her and her Lord.”
📚Tirmidhī, Abū Dāwūd, Aḥmad, Ṣaḥīḥ

6. Keeps his secrets

7. Preserve the home of her husband

Hammam ibn Munabbih said:
These are some of the a ḥadīth of Muḥammad. the Messenger of Allāh ﷺ, transmitted to us on the authority of Abū Hurayrah. So he narrated one Ḥadīth out of them (as this): The Messenger of Allāh ﷺ said: No woman should observe fast when her spouse is present (in the house) but with his permission. And she should not admit any (maḥram) in his house, while he (her husband) is present, but with his permission. And whatever she spends from his earnings without his sanction, for him is half the reward.
📚Muslim

Abū Hurayrah (May Allāh be pleased with him) said:
The Messenger of Allāh ﷺ said, “It is not lawful for a woman to observe an optional Saum (fast) without the permission of her husband when he is at home. Nor should she allow anyone to enter his house without his permission.”
📚Bukhārī and Muslim

8. Spend anything from his wealth except with his permission

Abū Umāmah Bahiliy said that he heard Allāh’s Messenger ﷺ say during a sermon in the year of the farewell Pilgrimage. “A woman must not spend anything from her husband’s home without his permission”. He was asked, “O Messenger of Allāh! And not even food?” He said, “that is the best of our properties’.
📚Tirmidhī,Abū Dāwūd, Ibn Mājah, Ḥasan

Narrated Aa;ishah (raḍī Allāhu ʿanhā):
Allāh’s Messenger ﷺ said, “When a woman gives in charity from her husband’s meals without wasting the property of her husband, she will get a reward for it, and her husband too will get a reward for what he earned and the storekeeper will have the reward likewise.”
📚Bukhārī

Narrated ʿAbdullāh ibn Amr ibn al-‘As:
The Prophet ﷺ said: It is not permissible for a woman to present a gift (from her husband’s property) except with the permission of her husband.
📚Abū Dāwūd, Ḥasan Ṣaḥiḥ

9. Doesn’t fast except with his permission

Narrated Abū Hurayrah:

📝Nine Rights of a Husband upon His Wife

1. She obeys him in everything that is good but not that which is forbidden

Ibn ʿUmar (May Allāh be pleased with them) reported:
The Prophet ﷺ said, “All of you are guardians and are responsible for your subjects. The ruler is a guardian of his subjects, the man is a guardian of his family, the woman is a guardian and is responsible for her husband’s house and his offspring; and so all of you are guardians and are responsible for your subjects.”
📚Bukharī and Muslim

Āʿishah reported that a woman from the Ansār married her daughter who had lost her hair because of illness. She came to Allāh’s Apostle ﷺ and said:
Her husband wants that false hair should be added to her head. Thereupon Allāh’s Messenger ﷺ said: The woman who adds false hair has been cursed. This Ḥadīth has been narrated on the authority of Nafi’ with the same chain of transmitters but with a slight variation of wording.
📚Muslim

Abū Hurayrah (raḍī Allāhu ʿanhu) reported that the Prophet ﷺ said, If I were to command anyone to prostrate to anyone, I would have commanded woman to prostrate to her husband.
📚Tirmidhī, Ḥasan Ṣaḥīḥ

Amr ibn Al-Harith Al-Mustaliq said:
“It used to be said that the people with the worst punishment [on the Day of Judgment] are two: A woman who disobeyed her husband, and a people’s Imam whom they dislike.”
📚Tirmidhī. Ṣaḥīḥ

2. She is thankful to him

Ibn ʿUmar (May Allāh be pleased with them) said:
The Prophet ﷺ said, “O women folk! You should give charity and be diligent in seeking Allāh’s forgiveness because I have seen (i.e., on the Night of the Ascension to the highest heavens) that dwellers of the Hell are women.” A woman amongst them said: “Why is it that the majority of the dwellers of Hell are women?” The Prophet ﷺ replied, “You curse frequently and are ungrateful to your husbands. In spite of your lacking in wisdom and failing in religion, you are depriving the wisest of men of their intelligence.” Upon this the woman asked: “What is the deficiency in our wisdom and in our religion?” He ﷺ replied, “Your lack of wisdom can be well judged from the fact that the evidence of two women is equal to that one man. You do not offer Salat (prayer) for some days and you do not fast (the whole of) Ramaḍān sometimes, it is a deficiency in religion.”
📚[Muslim].

3. That she does not anger him nor become angry with him

Narrated Abū Hurayrah:
The Prophet ﷺ said, “If a woman spends the night deserting her husband’s bed (does not sleep with him), then the angels send their curses on her till she comes back (to her husband).
📚Bukhārī

Abū Hurayrah (May Allāh be pleased with him) reported:
Messenger of Allāh ﷺ said, “When a man calls his wife to his bed, and she does not respond and he (the husband) spends the night angry with her, the angels curse her until morning”.
📚Bukhārī and Muslim

In another narration: The Messenger of Allāh ﷺ said, “When a woman spends the night away from the bed of her husband, the angels curse her until morning”.
📚Bukhārī and Muslim

In another narration: Messenger of Allāh ﷺ said, “By Him in Whose Hand is my life, when a man calls his wife to his bed, and she does not respond, the One Who is above the heaven becomes displeased with her until he (her husband) becomes pleased with her”.
📚Bukhārī and Muslim

Abū Umāmah narrated that:
Allāh’s Messenger ﷺ said: “There are three whose Salat would not rise up beyond their ears: The runaway slave until he returns, a woman who spends a night while her husband is angry with her, and a people’s Imam whom they dislike.”
📚Tirmidhī, Ḥasan

4. She is loving and merciful with him

“And among His Signs is this, that He created for you wives from among yourselves, that you may find repose in them, and He has put between you affection and mercy. Verily, in that are indeed signs for a people who reflect.”
[al-Rūm, 30:21]

Umm Kulthum ibnt ʿUqbah (May Allāh be pleased with her) reported:

💡THE BOOK OF BELIEF (FAITH) | كتاب : الإيمان

21- باب كفران العشير وكفر دون كفر:

(21) CHAPTER. To be ungrateful to one’s husband. And disbelief is of (different grades) lesser (or greater) degrees.

📜Hadeeth No: 29
حدیث نمبر: ٢٩

عَنْ أَبِي سَعِيدٍ الْخُدْرِيِّ، عَنِ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ.


حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ مَسْلَمَةَ، عَنْ مَالِكٍ، عَنْ زَيْدِ بْنِ أَسْلَمَ، عَنْعَطَاءِ بْنِ يَسَارٍ، عَنْ ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ، قَالَ: قَالَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: " أُرِيتُ النَّارَ فَإِذَا أَكْثَرُ أَهْلِهَا النِّسَاءُ يَكْفُرْنَ، قِيلَ: أَيَكْفُرْنَ بِاللَّهِ، قَالَ: يَكْفُرْنَ الْعَشِيرَ، وَيَكْفُرْنَ الْإِحْسَانَ لَوْ أَحْسَنْتَ إِلَى إِحْدَاهُنَّ الدَّهْرَ، ثُمَّ رَأَتْ مِنْكَ شَيْئًا، قَالَتْ: مَا رَأَيْتُ مِنْكَ خَيْرًا قَطُّ ".

Narrated Ibn 'Abbas رضي اللّٰه عنه: The Prophet ﷺ said: "I was shown the Hell-fire and that the majority of its dwellers were women who were ungrateful." It was asked, "Do they disbelieve in Allah?" (or are they ungrateful to Allah?) He ﷺ replied, "They are ungrateful to their husbands and are ungrateful for the favors and the good (charitable deeds) done to them. If you have always been good (benevolent) to one of them and then she sees something in you (not of her liking), she will say, 'I have never received any good from you."

📖 صحيح البخاري | Sahīh Bukharī


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📝 من ضيع طفله فقد ضيع كنزا ثمينا:



السؤال :

قال سائل: هل من طريقة يُدرس بها الصبيان دون العاشرة هذه القواعد الأربع المهمة ؟



📣 جواب الـشيخ الـعلامة عبد الله بن عبد الـرحيم الـبخاري -حفظه الله تعالى ورعاه- :


✍ نعم، من تدريس الصبيان، الأطفال، تحفيظهم هذا المتن، وإفهامهم معاني الكلمات الغريبة فقط، إذا كان عنده إدراك، بعد أن تكرر عليه، اشرح له شرحا عاما، لا حرج في هذا إن كان يستوعب، وهذا طيب ومفيد، نعم.

✍ اهتموا بالأطفال، أقول: اهتموا بالأطفال والصبيان، من كان عنده صبية، أو إخوة صغار، وهذا أمر مهم جدا، لا يجوز إغفاله، فهذا الطفل سيكون غدا شابا، ويكون رجلا، فالعناية به مهمة، وأكيدة، والنبي عليه الصلاة والسلام قد اعتنى باﻷطفال، فكان عليه الصلاة والسلام يأخذ الحسن عندما كان يحبو وأتى إلى تمر الصدقة، قال: كِخ كِخ أو كَخ كَخ في ضبطها اثنى عشر لغة، قال عليه الصلاة والسلام: (أما تعلم أنا لا نأكل من تمر الصدقة)، وهو صغير، لكن يربيه، ويعلمه، وهذا حكم نأخذه نحن بعده، أقول: صارت الأحكام والفوائد، فلذا العناية بالأطفال مهمة، ومن ضيع طفله فقد ضيع كنزا ثمينا، فلا يلومن إلا نفسه، اعتني به، واحرص عليه، وانصح له، وربه التربية الحسنة النافعة، ينفعك إن شاء الله إذا احتجته، وفي الحديث الصحيح: (إذا مات العبد انقطع عمله إلا من ثلاث) ومن قوله عليه الصلاة والسلام: (أو ولد صالح يدعو له)، وصلاح الآباء له أثر في صلاح الأبناء، كما قال الله جل وعلا: {وكان أبوهما صالحا}، فانتبه، فأصلح نفسك، واسع في صلاح ماذا؟ ذريتك بارك الله فيك.



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🔹 جزى الله خيرا من انتفع ونفع واستفاد وأفاد غيره بنشرها .

☀️[Mercy Towards Children]:

👤al-Imaam as-S’adee, may Allah have mercy on him, said:

Showing mercy towards children, being gentle towards them, and doing things to make them happy are all forms of mercy.

Just as not paying them any attention and a lack of gentleness are forms of roughness, sternness, and cruelty.

An example of this is when some rough bedouins saw the Prophet (ﷺ) and his Companions kissing their small children, one of the bedouins said:

I have ten children; I have not kissed any of them.

The Prophet (ﷺ) said:

Am I able to do anything for you, if Allah has removed mercy from your heart?! [1]/[2]
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[1]: Collected by al-Bukhaaree, #6279 and Muslim, #923.

[2]: See “Joy for the Hearts of the Righteous”, by Imaam as-S’adee, pg. 239.    

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