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9. We will prioritize our marriage above everything else. Apart from your relationship with God, your marriage is the most important relationship in your life. It is more important than your children, your job, your personal interests or your hobbies. Determine to work hard to meet each other’s needs, and refuse to sacrifice your marriage for anything or anyone else.

10. We will base our marriage on Christ-like love. His love never fails. Marriage is a covenant designed by God. It is sacrificial and permanent. It is not a relationship of convenience. The vows “for better or for worse, for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health” are covenant vows. That means your marriage is based on the decision to love and cherish each other and not on feelings, convenience or comfort.

Don’t make important decisions in your marriage based on emotions. If you do, you’ll regret it. Make these ten important decisions now and you’ll create a marriage strong enough to withstand difficulties, disagreements and fleeting emotions.

Did you know 86 percent of divorces are the result of what researchers call “non-severe circumstances”? That means the marriage-ending circumstances are not related to severe problems like abuse, abandonment or adultery. Instead, they are because of fights about money, kids, sex and other emotional issues. These are emotional decisions. They happen in the heat of the moment.

One of the most important characteristics of a healthy marriage is to make decisions without regard to emotions. Emotions are fickle and unpredictable. They may be very real, but they can also be very wrong.

But at the same time, we’re humans. We are emotional creatures. So, how can you keep emotions from impacting the health of your marriage? The best approach is to pre-make your decisions now. Instead of making decisions based on how you feel, make them based on what is right and what is best for your relationship.

Here are ten decisions to make today about your marriage:
1. We will never threaten divorce. You were married for life, so take divorce off the table. Don’t use threats of divorce as leverage to get your spouse to do something. In fact, take the word out of your vocabulary altogether. Work out your problems without using that word.
2. We will never go to bed angry. Work out your disagreements on a daily basis or resentment will begin to fester. If you can’t find a solution, submit to Godly counsel. There will always be times in a marriage where you can’t work out problems on your own, so get help. Getting help is not a sign of weakness but of wisdom.

3. We will never “agree to disagree.” Marriage is the longest journey you’ll take in your life, but if one spouse is going one direction and the other spouse goes the other way, you will always have conflict. Seek agreement by seeking the Lord together. Submit to God and godly counsel until the two of you can get on the same page.

4. We will respect and celebrate our differences. You are two distinct individuals, which means you won’t always look at the world the same way. Do not dishonor each other or disrespect each other because your spouse thinks differently than you. Refuse to judge each other or talk bad about each other. Instead, be thankful for the ways you are different. It makes you a better team.
5. We will give each other the right to complain and be honest without paying a price.Think of yourself as a customer relations counter for your marriage. If your customer—your spouse—brings a complaint to you, then listen to that complaint and work to make it right. Accept it with a good attitude. Don’t roll your eyes. Don’t be defensive. Don’t shame your spouse for being honest with you.
6. We will be faithful to each other. Faithfulness means more than just sexual faithfulness (though of course that is a big part of your marriage vows). Faithfulness also refers to your emotions. Even during times of frustration or difficulty, never let your heart be turned away from each other to another person.
7. We will develop healthy relationships with fellow believers. If you want to know what your marriage will look like in five years, observe the couples you’re spending time with today. Divorces run in packs. You want friends who will encourage you to do the right thing, even during hard times. You also need to remain connected to a Bible-believing local church where you can hear God’s Word preached on a weekly basis. Church is where you’ll find your best friends.

8. We will make our decisions together. The two of you are equal partners. There should not be one spouse who is dominant and one spouse who is more submissive. When you are making any significant decision, both of you have equal input and both of you respect each other’s opinions. Never bully each other to change or influence a decision.

Relationships with your spouse cause fatigue and irritation: 8 possible reasons

1. Old psychological traumas
Unhealed trauma of one spouse (or both) can provoke feelings of inferiority, loneliness, shame.

2. Sexual traumas
Unprocessed traumatic sexual experiences very often interfere with one's ability to have a fulfilling intimate life.

3. Internalized patterns of family life

4. "Alarm bells."
No matter how charming your partner is, even at the beginning of the relationship you may notice signs of future problems.

5. Psychological disorders
Personality disorders and various addictions often lead to some form of domestic violence.

6. Chronic Negative Emotions.
Anger, anxiety, guilt, depression, fear - if such experiences arise constantly in a marriage, the person gradually dulls any feelings at all.

7. Constant monotonous complaints

8. Habitual patterns of behavior.
Bad habits are easy to pick up, and getting rid of them can be very difficult.

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P Diddy Arrested!

Embattled hip-hop mogul Sean "Diddy" Combs has been arrested in New York City on unspecified federal charges, federal authorities told the BBC's US partner CBS.

The arrest in Manhattan follows raids on two of his properties in Los Angeles and Miami in March as part of an "ongoing investigation" into sex trafficking by authorities.

Mr Combs's attorney, Marc Agnifilo, said they were "disappointed" by the arrest and his client was an "innocent man".

The musician has faced a series of allegations from sexual assault to abuse, including by his ex-partner Casandra "Cassie" Ventura. He has denied all the claims against him.

Diddy faces at least 10 sexual assault lawsuits. He has also had sex with most of your favourite black male rappers.

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Meta's Mark Zuckerberg had decided to air the USA government's dirty linen in public 🤧

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Telegram Founder and CEO Arrested

Pavel Durov, the founder and CEO of Telegram, was arrested at Le Bourget Airport in France on the evening of August 24, 2024. Here's what we know based on the information available up to that time:

- Reason for Arrest: Durov's arrest stems from accusations of complicity in various crimes due to Telegram's lack of moderation. These include drug trafficking, crimes against children, and fraud. The French authorities have argued that Telegram's policies and tools make it an accomplice to these activities by not cooperating sufficiently with law enforcement.

- Location and Timing: He was detained as he disembarked from his private jet at Le Bourget Airport, just outside Paris. This event occurred around 8 PM local time.

- Legal Context: Durov was targeted by an arrest warrant executable only on French soil, which might explain why his travel to France became problematic despite him holding French nationality alongside his Russian citizenship.

- Public Reaction: The arrest has sparked discussions on platforms like X (formerly Twitter), with some users expressing support for Durov, viewing his arrest as an attack on free speech. There's a sentiment that Durov is being penalized for not censoring content on Telegram, which is known for its strong encryption and privacy features.

- Implications: This incident raises questions about internet freedom, privacy, and the responsibilities of platform owners in moderating content. The case could set precedents for how tech CEOs are held accountable for the content shared on their platforms.

- Next Steps: Durov was expected to appear before an investigating judge, potentially facing an array of charges including terrorism, narcotics, pedocriminal content, complicity, money laundering, and fraud.

This situation underscores ongoing global debates about the balance between privacy, security, and content moderation on encrypted messaging platforms. The outcome of Durov's legal proceedings could have significant implications for how such platforms operate in the future.

The founder of Telegram Pavel Durov has Been Arrested in France. He's facing 20 years in jail for Refusing to Censor Telegram.
The charges include Terrorism, Money Laundering & More.
They’re now Targeting anyone who Defends Free Speech. Sad!

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