Based on everything you know about me and everything revealed above, without resorting to cliches , outdated ideas or simple summaries- and without prioritising kindness over necessary honesty
- what patterns and loops should I stop?
What new patterns and loops should I adopt? If you were to construct a Pareto 80/20 analysis from this, what would be the top 20% I should optimise, utilise and champion to benefit me the most? Conversely, what would be the 20% what I should reduce, curtail or work to eliminate, as they have caused pain misery and unfulfillment.