وَابْذُلْ وُسْعَكَ فِي إِسْعَادِ الْآخَرِينَ؛ وَلَوْ بِكَلِمَةٍ طَيِّبَةٍ، وَكُنْ صَاحِبَ الْيَدِ الْعُلْيَا.
وَإِنْ بَذَلْتَ فَلَا تَنْتَظِرِ الْمُقَابِلَ، وَإِنْ قُوبِلْتَ بِالنُّكْرَانِ فَلَا تَبْتَئِسْ، بَلْ تَوَقُّعُكَ لِذَلِكَ أَرْفَقُ بِقَلْبِكَ، وَأَرْيَحُ لِخَاطِرِكَ.
وَاعْلَمْ أَنَّ الْأَخْلَاقَ لَيْسَتْ بِالْمُقَايَضَةِ، بَلْ بِالِاتِّبَاعِ.
✍🏻 الشَّيْخُ: مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ غَالِبٍ الْعُمْرِيُّ -حَفِظَهُ اللَّهُ-.
In your interactions with people, sit with the people of faith and choose honest companions.
Exert your effort in bringing happiness to others, even if it is merely with a kind word, and always strive to have the high hand (i.e., to be in a position to give).
When you give, do not expect anything in return. If you are met with ingratitude, do not be upset. Instead, expecting such reactions is gentler on your heart and more comforting to your mind.
And know that good character is not based on reciprocal exchange but on following (the Sunnah).
✍🏻 Shaykh Muhammad ibn Ghalib al-‘Umari – may Allah preserve him.