St. Joseph β A Symbol of Authentic Manhood
In a culture that seems to only ridicule and degrade traditional masculinity and its virtues, the Christmas holiday provides a welcome opportunity to reflect on one of the greatest symbols of authentic manhood in human history β St. Joseph, husband of Mary, the mother of Jesus Christ.
In the story of Christβs arrival on Earth, the role of Joseph is often overlooked. Astonishingly, despite his central place in the birth and life of Jesus, Joseph was not proclaimed a saint until 1870, nearly 2,000 years after the events of the Bible took place. Eventually St. Joseph became the patron saint of the fight against atheistic communism, and after World War II the Feast of St. Joseph the Worker was established. (β¦)
Despite the enormous difficulty of what the Lord asked of Joseph, he obeyed without question and shouldered this burden with a quiet determination that should be an inspiration to all of us today, men and women alike. His exemplary posture was essential for fulfilling Godβs plan. (β¦)
Some Biblical scholars believe that Josephβs father died early and that his stepfather raised him, explaining why there are two paternal names in Josephβs genealogy found in the Gospels. Other church leaders have suggested that it was the paternal love offered by Josephβs stepfather that ingrained in him the character traits he would need to raise Jesus. (β¦)
Early church fathers, including St. Irenaeus, St. Augustine, and St. Athanasius, taught that four of Josephβs critical character traits demonstrate his true manhood: discretion, dignity, determination, and entrepreneurial spirit. St. Irenaeus believed these qualities and personal integrity contributed to Josephβs βspiritual maturity.β (β¦)
Joseph and Mary in many ways exemplified Godβs intention for marital union, Dr. Bakon explained. Their codependent relationship βwas Godβs expression of moral and intellectual equality between man and woman, advising them to rely on joint wisdom and consider each otherβs perspectives.β
This lesson seems to all too often be forgotten today. In her recent book The Toxic War on Masculinity: How Christianity Reconciles the Sexes, theologian and scholar Nancy Pearcey quotes psychological research which finds that most American husbands, 65 percent, disregard their wivesβ opinions, feelings, and concerns, resulting in a higher likelihood of a failed marriage.
But, Pearcey contends, masculinity is not inherently toxic. Manhood, she writes, is βfulfilled in the opportunity to serve and protect.β Josephβs life powerfully demonstrates these two virtues, providing an example for American men today. (β¦)
Josephβs quiet yet profound witness reminds us that true strength lies not in dominance but in devotion, not in seeking personal glory but in embracing selfless service. In an era that often confuses assertiveness with virtue, his example of humility, discretion, and unwavering commitment challenges us to see manhood in the light of sacrifice and love.
If we, too, seek to live with such purpose and integrity, perhaps we can rekindle a culture where both men and women flourish in mutual respect and shared wisdom.
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