همینکه داشتم فکر میکردم که فلان عکسم رو استوری کنم تا پسره ببینه و تعریف کنه، یادم اومد که چقدر دارم دلم رو خوش میکنم به تایید گرفتن از آدمی که حتی ۱۰ درصد هم نمیشناسمش اما برام مهم شده.
بیشتر دقت کردم دیدم خیلی از ما دخترها اینجوری شدیم.
از استانداردهای خودمون عقبنشینی کردیم.
به نظر من چند عامل تاثیرگذاره:
اول: زنان سالهاست دارن سعی میکنند عاملیت جنسیشون رو به کنترل بگیرند و از اینکه منتظر بمونند برای اقدام از طرف مردها، خسته شدند اما انقدر این کار زیاد شده که اون تفاوت ذاتی بین زن و مرد که مردها به دنبال جلب نظر زنها هستند، از بین رفته.
دوم: یک تحقیقی میخوندم که میگفت تغییرات شغلی در مردها بر سطح تستوسترونشون تأثیر گذاشته. میگفت مردها در گذشته شکارچی بودند و باعث میشد برای هر چیزی تمایل داشته باشند که مبارزه کنند و این حجم از هیجان سطح هورمونهای مردانه رو در اونها افزایش میداد.
سوم: نسل جدید بشر کلا میل به راحتی داره و میخواد همه چیز آسوده در اختیارش قرار بگیره. ما نسل غذاهای فست فودی، پیامهای سریع و حتی دانشی که با یک سرچ به دست میاد و در یک کلمه ما ملت دوپامین و لذتهای آنی و لحظهای هستیم و تلاش و صبر برای به دست آوردن چیزها، از دست رفته.
خلاصه که من آدم تلاشم. تلاشهای قدم به قدم. روابطی که براش زمان گذاشته بشه. نزدیکیهایی که دو طرف (چه رفاقت و چه رابطه عاطفی) خودشون رو به اون یکی ثابت کنند و متقابلا تلاش کنند برای شناخت جزئیات شخصیتی طرف مقابل.
من با وجود سن کمم، آدم نسلی هستم که برای صحبتهای عاشقانه مدتها صبر میکرد تا نامه به دست یارش برسه و بیشتر هم منتظر میموند تا پاسخ دلنشین معشوقهش بهش برسه.
اگر تو هم مثل منی؛ سلام بهت که طعم تنهایی رو بیشتر از دیگران درک میکنی.
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Understanding Sufism: A Deep Dive into Mystical Spirituality
Sufism, known as Tasawwuf in Arabic, represents the mystical and spiritual aspect of Islam. Emerging during the early centuries of the Islamic faith, Sufism focuses on personal experiences of the divine and seeks a direct connection with God. The movement emphasizes internal purification and the nurturing of a close relationship with the Creator through love, devotion, and spiritual practices. Sufis engage in various rituals, including dhikr (remembrance of God), meditation, and music, which are believed to lead to enlightenment and a transcended state of existence. This article will explore the core concepts of Sufism, its historical development, and its ongoing influence in the modern world.
What are the main beliefs of Sufism?
Sufism is founded on the principle that the essence of Islam is not only in its rituals and laws but also in the personal experience of God. Central to Sufi belief is the notion of love - a divine love that compels the seeker to dissolve the ego and realize their unity with God. Sufis believe in the concept of 'tawhid' or oneness, which signifies that nothing exists outside of God. This leads them to seek to eliminate the boundaries between themselves and the divine.
Additionally, Sufism values the importance of the heart and inner realization over external displays of piety. The Sufi path is often characterized by stages of perfection, known as 'maqamat', where the seeker transcends worldly attachments, achieving deeper levels of spiritual insight and divine presence.
How does music play a role in Sufi practices?
Music, particularly through the form of Sufi poetry and the recitation of divine names, serves as a significant vehicle for spiritual expression within Sufism. The use of musical instruments, particularly the reed flute and drum, is intended to elevate the soul and enhance the devotional experience. Sufi gatherings, known as 'Sama', often involve music and dance, where participants express their love for God through rhythmic movements and melodies.
This musical practice is not merely for entertainment; it is considered a means of reaching ecstasy and unity with the divine. The famous Persian poet Rumi, a notable figure in Sufi literature, often included the themes of music and dance as pathways to spiritual enlightenment in his works.
What is the significance of Sufi poetry?
Sufi poetry occupies a central role in conveying complex mystical concepts in an accessible manner. Renowned poets like Rumi, Hafez, and Saadi encapsulated the essence of Sufi teachings in verses that explore themes of love, longing, and the quest for God. Their works often reflect the struggle between the material and spiritual worlds, highlighting an individual's journey toward divine union.
Moreover, Sufi poetry serves as an important educational tool, allowing practitioners and seekers to explore deeper philosophical insights and emotional experiences related to their faith. The symbolic and metaphysical language found in these poems invites readers to interpret their meaning personally, fostering both introspection and an appreciation of the divine.
How did Sufism influence Islamic culture?
Sufism has significantly shaped Islamic culture through its rich literary, artistic, and musical contributions. The influence of Sufi thought can be observed in various art forms, including calligraphy, painting, and architecture, where motifs and expressions of divine love and beauty are prominent. Many mosques and public buildings incorporate Sufi principles in their designs, promoting an atmosphere of worship and reflection.
Furthermore, Sufism has played a key role in the spread of Islam across different regions. Sufi missionaries often acted as agents of cultural exchange, integrating local customs and practices into Islamic teachings, which facilitated a peaceful dissemination of the faith and helped to create a more inclusive religious environment.
Is Sufism still relevant today?
In today's world, Sufism remains relevant as it addresses contemporary issues of spirituality and personal fulfillment. Many individuals are drawn to Sufism for its emphasis on love, tolerance, and the pursuit of inner peace in a rapidly changing society. The teachings of Sufi masters are increasingly being explored in various forms of spiritual practice, promoting interfaith dialogue and understanding.
Moreover, Sufi music and poetry have garnered international appreciation, transcending cultural barriers and resonating with a diverse audience. Festivals celebrating Sufi culture attract people from all walks of life, highlighting Sufism's timeless messages of unity and love in the face of division and conflict.
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