Wednesday, 12th February 2025
Apostle Grace Lubega
1 Corinthians 13:4 (KJV): Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up,
FAMILY SERIES: YOUR SPOUSE’S WEAKNESSES
As a married couple, one of the key truths you must settle in your heart is that neither of you has the power to change the other.
There will be habits of your spouse that require you to exercise patience while God works on them.
For instance, if your spouse does not behave in the manner you expect—such as not praying as you would want them to—it is your responsibility to focus on doing your part: pray.
Do not allow yourself to become overly consumed by your partner's weaknesses; doing so is a sign of immaturity. Some people are so fixated on their spouse's shortcomings that they fail to see anything else worth preserving in their marriage.
Refusing to let yourself be consumed by these weaknesses will help you in two significant ways: It will make forgiveness much easier and it will aid your healing when you are hurt.
The change in your spouse may take time—perhaps a year, five years, ten years, or even twenty years. But if you have settled in your heart that it is God’s responsibility, not yours, to change them, He will grant you joy and a peace that surpasses all understanding.
Always remember: you only have power over yourself, not over your spouse. Let God handle them and bring about the changes He deems necessary. Regardless of their state, God remains faithful. Hallelujah!
FURTHER STUDY: 1 Peter 4:8; Proverbs 10:12
GOLDEN NUGGET: As a married couple, one of the key truths you must settle in your heart is that neither of you has the power to change the other. There will be habits of your spouse that require you to exercise patience while God works on them.
PRAYER: Loving Father, I thank You for this word. Thank You for the precious and priceless gift of marriage. Your Word declares that marriage is honorable in all. I choose to handle my partner's weaknesses with love and wisdom, covering them and refusing to expose them or bleed on those who did not hurt me. With patient endurance, I commit to praying for them, knowing that You are working in them daily and that You cannot fail. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
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