The news of the Young Doctor, NEET topper of 2017, has left me shattered. It's unbelievable ki jo insaan itni kam umar mein itna kuch achieve kar gaya, aaj woh humare beech nahi hai. Yeh tragedy humein ek kadwi sachai yaad dilati hai, jo hum aksar ignore kar dete hain.
Hum bachpan se sunte aaye hain ki success sab kuch hai, aur apne goals ke peeche daudhte rehna hi zindagi ka maqsad hai. Lekin is daud mein hum ek zaroori cheez bhool jaate hain – apni mental health. Har kisi par pressure toh hota hi hai, lekin saath mein personal battles bhi chal rahi hoti hain, jo hum kabhi kisi se share nahi karte. Chahe woh family problems ho, heartbreak, loneliness, ya phir failure ka darr – yeh sab cheezein andar hi andar humein todti rehti hain.
Par hum apne aap ko itna push kyun karte hain, jab humein pata hota hai ki hum mentally exhaust ho rahe hain? Kyun hum apne personal struggles ko sirf ek chhoti si rukawat samajh ke ignore karte hain, jabki yeh humare andar se humein tod sakti hain? Success kabhi bhi mental health ki qeemat par nahi aani chahiye.
Aaj ke jamane mein mobile aur social media ne logon ko ek doosre se kitna door kar diya hai. Hum physically paas hote hue bhi emotionally door hote ja rahe hain. Screens ke peeche apni struggles ko chhupa lete hain, jabki humein ek doosre ka saath aur support zaroori hai.
Hum sabko apne aur doosron ke saath zyada meherbaan hona chahiye. Apni problems ke baare mein khul ke baat karni chahiye – chahe woh personal ho, professional, ya emotional. Koi bhi insaan apni ladai akela nahi ladna chahiye, aur kisi ki mental health ko success ke liye sacrifice nahi karna chahiye.
Humein silent suffering ko normal banana band karna hoga. Sabko ek doosre ka sahara banna hoga, kyunki har achievement ke peeche ek insaan hota hai, jiske apne hopes, fears, aur struggles hote hain. Chalo ek dusre ka support system banein.
Aaj ke zamane mein mobile ki duniya ek pseudo world jaise ho gayi hai, jo asal mein exist nahi karti. Humko lagta hai ki hum connected hain, lekin asal mein hum emotionally disconnect ho chuke hain. Har din hum choti-badi cheezon ke liye struggle karte hain, aur is digital daur mein hum apni asli relationships ko nazarandaz kar rahe hain.
Isliye, please apni family ko importance dein. Jitni achi family bonding hogi, utni hi mental anxiety kam hogi. Jab aap apne logon ke saath waqt bitate ho, toh jo emotional support milta hai, woh kisi aur cheez se nahi mil sakta. Family ka support aapko inner strength deta hai, aur is daudti-bhagti zindagi mein zaroori hai ki hum apne family ke saath waqt bitayein.
Jo log class mein first nahi aate, unhe bhi encourage karna chahiye. Har insaan apne aap mein hero hota hai, bas humein uss hero ko pehchanna hota hai. Sirf toppers ko hi reward kyun? Jo log struggle karte hain, unki mehnat bhi utni hi valuable hoti hai. Har ek ko aisa lagna chahiye ki unki efforts ki kadr hoti hai, chahe result kuch bhi ho.
Aur sabse zaroori baat, sabko ek aisa insaan zaroor dhoondhna chahiye jisse aap bina jhijhak khul ke apni baat kar sako, apne dil ki har baat share kar sako, aur jisse kabhi jhooth na bolna pade. Aisa rishta ya dosti sabki life mein zaroor honi chahiye, jo humein emotional comfort aur sachai ka ehsaas dilaye.
Hum mobile aur digital world ke chakkar mein apni real duniya ko bhool rahe hain. Humein yaad rakhna chahiye ki asli zindagi jo hum apne aas paas ke logon ke saath jeete hain, usse zyada important kuch nahi ho sakta.
Ham loog hmsha connected rahenge..
Mai hmsha tum loogo ke sath hu..
lots of love 💕